4 WAYS TO WIN A MAN’S HEART AND AVOID BROKEN HEART.

4 WAYS TO WIN A MAN’S HEART AND AVOID BROKEN HEART.

Cooking experience is necessary to win a man:
Man love woman who can cook delicious dinner. Dinners and a touch of romance make the heart grow fonder. Not all meals have to be5-star meals, but the taste is more important. Learn to cook is favorite foods.

Bedroom activities:

Bedroom activities are another way to win a man’s heart. Men enjoy a good time in the bedroom and sexual activities are always a way to win a man’s heart. Learn to experiment with different position and types of sexual pleasure.

Keep a clean House:

Men are always looking for a woman who can clean, cook and look beautiful all the time. Keep everything tidy and never leave dirty dishes or dirty laundry lying around.

Understanding:

Understanding is another way to win a man. A man needs an understanding woman.

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Signs of marriage failure

CAUSES OF FAILING MARRIAGE.

1. Unfaithfulness:

Unfaithfulness by either the wife or husband is a disease that corrupts many marriages and brings it down with great pain and regret. Suspicion of unfaithfulness by one breeds jealousy. Car gift, landed property, past experience of some, especially as they grow up, makes some to easily suspect their spouses.




2. Communications breakdown:

Break down in communications is a major indices of marriage collapsing. Ineffective communications in words or emotion of the speaker should be conveyed with reasonable accuracy to the listener. Take time to understand your thought, attitudinal changes, conduct, and emotions. Confused thinking and talking do not make for effective communication.

3. Lack of submissiveness:

Lack of submission on the wife to her husband is a warning danger. Do you submit to your spouse? Does your beauty, wealth, position, certificate make it difficult? Reset your priority if it has been misplaced. Malice and unforgiveness make submission impossible. Forgive past offences to get along smoothly with your partner.

4. Misplace of love in the home:

Husbands love you wife and dwell with them in knowledge. The love of a husband for his wife is the love of his own self. Love is living, love can grow cold but it can be revived. Don’t let your love for your wife die.


5. Presentation and Appearance:

Are your dressings presentable? Shabbiness could make your husband distance himself from you. And you husband, do you smile? Are you cheerful, or you are always moody. Oppressive looks will not help but make your affair to crumble. Be happy and sing praise to God always.






6. The arch enemy:

The devil cometh to steal, kill and to destroy homes and family. He masterminds all the other causes of insecurity and failure in marriages. Fight the devil and chase him out of your marriage through prayer.

7. Sex in marriage:

Defraud not one another. Sex in marriage is often not discussed. Yet without it everything else falls out of place. When couple stay together and share intimacy, it strengthen their love of loyalty, bond two heart, two body, two soul and connect the physical pleasure with spiritual. Sexual pleasure is exclusive reserve for “married couples.” Neither the man nor woman has the right to deny the other. It must be with consent that staying away from each other is admissible. Even then, it must be “for a time|” a short while.

how to make your husband happy

HOW TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY.

Open proverb 31:11-12,23: read it to him.

…Pray and make supplications for him, committing his career, dreams and aspirations to God.

…Tell him what you like or admire in him and praise God for his good qualities.

…Give him a full dose of tender loving care.

…Visit him in the office.

…Prepare and serve him his favorite dish in such a way that he would think it ungodly to eat outside.

…Let him have his way on decision involving you in your offfice.

…Tell him you cherish and love him very dearly.

…Show him your last shopping list and the price of each item you bought.

…Plan the next weekend menu with him and present it for his approval.

…Seek for his appraisal of your child training and ask for suggestions from him.

…Is it unhappy due to workload in the office or due to circumstances, try and encourage him, share his pains, burden and be a wise counselor.

…Is there a spill over of work brought home? Lend him a helping hand, maybe by keeping the children from disturbing daddy.

…Surprise him with gifts.

…Is he not measuring up to your expectation? Don’t nag him. Pray that God we him a man of your dream.

…Fats and pray that God we bless your Dear husband.

reducing friction at home

MENDING RELATIONSHIPS IN A FAMILY.

Human relationship in a family is not static. Changes take place in peoples value system, emotions, pursuit, inclinations and aspiration. Since no two individuals are the same and moods differs, there are bound to be friction between spouses. This difference and disagreement threaten the stability of the family home.

How is your relationship with your spouse? Strained? almost broken?broken?

Prayerfully take these steps:

…Create opportunity for only two of you to talk over the matter.

…Listen to your partner with willingness to understand.

…Be in control of your emotions, carefully and cautiously choosing your words.

…Objectively examine yourself to see where you are probably at fault.

…Apologise for your fault, determining never to repeat the actions and its likes.

…Seek the well-being of your partner and soften your and stance for him or her.

…If your are the offended, never nurse a feeling of revenge but pray and receive grace to forgive.

…Give all possible concessions.

…If your partner fails to see reason, then take the next step.

…Prayerfully seek a God-fearing third party who will be sincere and fair to listen to both of you.

…If the third-party intervention deadlocks, take the next step.

…Prayerfully report the matter to your pastor or any one who has some measure of authority over both of you.

…In case your partner remains implacable, then continue in prayer for him or her, believing God to melt his or her heart and change it.

…Ensure you are not harbouring any resentment, revenge or retaliation so your prayers be not hindered.

how to please your wife

HOW TO MAKE YOUR WIFE HAPPY


Open proverb 31:11,28.Read it to her.

…Ask her for heart desire and pray with her concerning them.

…Eat together as family and after dinner, express your thanks for the delicious meal.

…Call her on phone when away and tell her you love and appreciate her.

…Give her a helping hand in domestic matters or chores.

…Caution her gently in love when she make mistake.

…Assure her of your faithfulness when leaving home for work and pray for her while in the office.

…Take decision together and ask for opinion on important matters.

…Go to worship service together.

…Surprise her with gifts and also send gifts to her parents.

…Gather the children and tell them how important their mum is to the home.

…Exhort her from your favorite verse in the Bible.

…Fast and pray that God we make her what she want to be in life.

…Give God the glory for a work well done.