Signs of marriage failure

CAUSES OF FAILING MARRIAGE.

1. Unfaithfulness:

Unfaithfulness by either the wife or husband is a disease that corrupts many marriages and brings it down with great pain and regret. Suspicion of unfaithfulness by one breeds jealousy. Car gift, landed property, past experience of some, especially as they grow up, makes some to easily suspect their spouses.




2. Communications breakdown:

Break down in communications is a major indices of marriage collapsing. Ineffective communications in words or emotion of the speaker should be conveyed with reasonable accuracy to the listener. Take time to understand your thought, attitudinal changes, conduct, and emotions. Confused thinking and talking do not make for effective communication.

3. Lack of submissiveness:

Lack of submission on the wife to her husband is a warning danger. Do you submit to your spouse? Does your beauty, wealth, position, certificate make it difficult? Reset your priority if it has been misplaced. Malice and unforgiveness make submission impossible. Forgive past offences to get along smoothly with your partner.

4. Misplace of love in the home:

Husbands love you wife and dwell with them in knowledge. The love of a husband for his wife is the love of his own self. Love is living, love can grow cold but it can be revived. Don’t let your love for your wife die.


5. Presentation and Appearance:

Are your dressings presentable? Shabbiness could make your husband distance himself from you. And you husband, do you smile? Are you cheerful, or you are always moody. Oppressive looks will not help but make your affair to crumble. Be happy and sing praise to God always.






6. The arch enemy:

The devil cometh to steal, kill and to destroy homes and family. He masterminds all the other causes of insecurity and failure in marriages. Fight the devil and chase him out of your marriage through prayer.

7. Sex in marriage:

Defraud not one another. Sex in marriage is often not discussed. Yet without it everything else falls out of place. When couple stay together and share intimacy, it strengthen their love of loyalty, bond two heart, two body, two soul and connect the physical pleasure with spiritual. Sexual pleasure is exclusive reserve for “married couples.” Neither the man nor woman has the right to deny the other. It must be with consent that staying away from each other is admissible. Even then, it must be “for a time|” a short while.